Think, speak, act in love

Some time as a woman / men we act with our feelings and not our minds,  we need to open up and give others a chance. Let our pass be in the pass. 

Learn from our mistakes, and don't dwell in it. It's up to us gain from it or sorrow in it. 

Live Life Don't let Life Live In you. 

How to lose upto 10 pounds in 3 days

3 DAY MILITARY DIET

 

 

 

The Military Diet claims you can lose up to 10 pounds per week without strenuous exercise or prescriptions. And we’ve got all the details, FREE! 

 

The diet is a combination of low calorie, chemically compatible foods designed to work together and jump start your weight loss, and because the diet is three days on and four days off, it won’t slow down your metabolism like other diets might.

 

        Burn fat, kick start your metabolism, and lose weight fast.

 

To see maximum results for the Military Diet, don’t go crazy on your four days off. Eat normally but don’t overcompensate for the three days of dieting by binging. On the four days off, stay with the  recommend of about 1300-1500 calories per day, made of up lean protein, veggies, and go easy on the carbs.

Drinks

Water is the best thing you can drink on the Military Diet. So drink as much as you can. Artificial sweeteners aren’t good for you, so try to avoid them. You can also drink herbal teas and use Stevia as a sweetener.

Day One                            

Breakfast:1/2 grapefruit 1 slice of toast 2 teaspoons of peanut butter 1 cup tea or coffee (with caffeine) Lunch:                                                              1/2 cup of tuna 1 slice of toast 1 cup tea or coffee (with caffeine) Dinner:3 ounces of any type of meat 1 cup of green beans 1/2 banana 1 small apple 1 cup of vanilla ice cream

Day Two                          

Breakfast:1 egg 1 slice of toast 1/2 banana

Lunch:1 cup of cottage cheese
1 hard boiled egg
5 saltine crackers

Dinner:2 hot dogs (without bun)
1 cup of broccoli
1/2 cup of carrots
1/2 banana
1/2 cup of vanilla ice cream               

Day Three

Breakfast: 5 saltine crackers 1 slice of cheddar cheese 1 small apple

Lunch:1 hard boiled egg
(or cooked however you like)
1 slice of toast                                   




Dinner:1 cup of tuna
1/2 banana
1 cup of vanilla ice cream



                                                  


                

Message

Try to do what is best for you and your kids. 

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Don't let the devil Win

Quotes Pick and choose One

 "KARMA" Do on to others what you want done onto you.

 
 


 Never let anyone tell you your not good enough, being yourself show character, inspiring, swag, motivating someone else to believe in their self.









Believing in yourself is it own Swag

Running from your problems just build on more problems. Think before you at.

Video love is not abusive

Hello Love Ones, This Leela here I am getting back to you all about the post "love is not abusive" post. I have put in here two question a man and a woman that email me a question about what is going in there life please share your comment and post, you can help someone else. Thank you hope you like it.

Strong Woman with a weak Man

 

I was told that I'm intimidating and a strong woman, I didn't know how to take that in when I was younger, but now I see it as a good thing. I went through some weak, lazy, men that just don't know how to provide for a family. I take on all the role in the house, I'm the mommy, daddy, big sister, aunt, uncle and that person everyone walk over.

So one day I was talking to my friend about my break up, it was a very bad experience for me. I needed someone to lean on for support, after I was finish with my conversation with this friend all she said was you strong you get through it.

But that was not the answer I needed. So it made me think, just because I'm strong I can't call on no one to lean on. So then when my father was a jerk to me and I needed someone to talk to about him, I reach out to my Aunt and she told me you strong sometimes you have to be the parent when your parent can't be. "What kind of answer is that," that is not what you say to a little girl that need her father in her life.

So I realize I will never have anyone to reach out to not my friend, family, or co worker. Because I'm so intimidating people treat me different all the time. So now I'm 20 +10 years old , being a strong woman is not a bad thing we as women try to dumb our self down for others "WHY" to make them feel better but what about my feeling. Since no one want to think about my feelings I have to do it myself. I will no longer, dumb myself down, and if I get a compliment I won't put myself down to please another anymore. So LADY'S please start treating yourself what you are worth and surround yourself with other like you.

Please send me your story and If you need someone to talk to Leela is hear to HELP please reach out. makinglovevswar@gmail.com

Love is not Abusive

Hello Love Ones, today we going to talk about abusive relationship. I had someone come to me and ask me when is enough is enough, my answer to that is when you give it your all and your not receiving it back, or when you tired of making excuses for when they mistreating you, or when you have no confidence in yourself then enough is enough.

The reason I answer this like that is because I will be posting a video for the woman the email me this question.

 

When things get this bad its time to leave the relationship. Question 2, I want to leave but I don't have the money to leave? We as women give so much in a relationship and sometime don't have the money to jump up and leave when we want to, I think you should just plan your way out. give yourself a month or 2 and plan to get away.

Step. 1. Do your research find a place to go to, one bedroom apartment or 2, rent a room or go and seek help from a church or a center that help in this situation.

 

Step. 2. Start putting away $20 to $100 dollar to move with. Get a job that your not trying to hold on to for a long time, and use the money as moving money.

 

Step. 3. Once you get that money together don't look back get a restraining order to protect yourself , change your number and don't contact know one, this is your secret.

 

 

Thank you from Leela

 



 

This said it all

I don't have to many words to say, this say it all. 

Tiponi on Divorce Court

Look at my Girl on Divorce Court 

This is part 1 of the video part 2 is below

Changing for the better

We in life give  to much and the people we care about under appreciate what we do for them and how much effort we put into it.  

When you show more love to the other person then you do yourself and don't receive it back, something is not right with that picture, it's time to make some changes don't keep putting 80% into someone else and only 20% into yourself, this will effect you mentally, emotionally and physically, we start eating more, staying in the house more being antisocial, and end up all in our feeling more and more. Overtime when someone give us a compliments we don't know how to take it in, so we response back negative,"oh thank you but I just threw something on, it nothing really ". We need to stop people.

When we start to open our eyes and make changes for the better and push away from the negative people or the things we do, how things come out of our month, you will start seeing a change for the better. Thank you Love Ones, Start your day out right.

This is not our music.

Valentine's day Questions with Linda

Hey Loved Ones, Tiponi here. Wuss good? Today we are going to take a question from one of our beautiful followers. She asked about gifting and Leela and I are going to give her our opinion. We would like you to get involved and respond to Linda's question, give her a little of your attention with at least a comment. You can show at least that much love for the season Righ? Anyway we want to hear from you with your questions and concerns, so please get your cameras and make those videos. What are you waiting for cause we waiting on you. Love Ya:-)

Introducing Linda

Tiponi's Response

Making love vs War Valentine's day special

The Love making council is back with a valentine's ideas and possible romantic date with Tiponi. check us out at www.makinglovevswar@blogspot.com. Love ya

Being Comfortable in your Sexiness.

Love Ones, let's talk about being comfortable in your sexiness. People if you find yourself doing the same thing every night I know you heard this before but Change it UP, you know that at one point your partner thought "YOU" was a SEXY MUTHA MUKA. Well it's still in you so go get it and remember how it made you feel when your partner looked at you like you were a Succulent Steak!!!







Yeah you want that look again, you want them to devour you like they did the last time you was Sexy As Hell. On top of that wonderful gift you give each other on Valentine's Day why not give them the best gift... The gift of HOT SEXY MAKING LOVE ..... you get the idea.

Word from Tiponi Gray

BEING SEXY IN YOUR SKIN

Starting a Relationship

Hello Love Ones, we going to chat with you about starting a relationship, but before starting one you should understand what you are looking for in the relationship, know your boundaries and set them, No Compromising.

 On keeping it going I would say never try to force any issue, always keep it honest and keep the emotions out of serious issues handle all your problems from both perspectives. Even though you may feel your right, in your partners eyes they are right too, sooo try to take yourself out and see from their point of view, and finally on keeping it going Always Always keep it SEXY.

Tiponi & Leela

Love One, chat with us we are here to help and listen to you.  We started this blog to reach out to all couples,  single people, and everyone in between we are here to chat and help out relationship in different areas.

Don't belittle yourself

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Ways to Be Confident, Ballsy, and Sexy as Hell in Bed

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Dating Tips for Shy Guys

Calling all shy guys! 

You may sometimes feel anxious, uncertain, and/or insecure when it comes to dating, the truth is that the right kind of woman will appreciate your unassuming ways. 

Fake it Till you Make It 

Not to get all Dr. Phil on you, but the good doctor’s got a point. If you’re a shy guy, you’ll need to start projecting self-confidence when dealing with women, even if you don’t fully feel it yet. Keep in mind, confidence is different than bragging and boasting. A confident man can comfortably make eye contact with a cute stranger, offer a friendly smile, and strike up a casual conversation without seeming phony or full of himself. If the idea of approaching a woman you don’t know feels overwhelming, take it slow. Practice making and maintaining eye contact with a member of the opposite sex every day for a week. The following week, add a friendly smile to your efforts. Once that feels natural, start saying hello. It’s true what they say — practice makes perfect, so the more you put these new behaviors into practice, the more natural they’ll become. By the time you meet someone amazing, you’ll be ready, willing, and able to confidently and comfortably ask her out.

Retrain your Brain

If your beliefs about dating have been largely negative, it’s time to retrain your brain. The past is the past. Let go of any dating disappointments and other drama you've experienced. Believe that future dating success IS possible for you. By thinking positively, you engage the law of attraction. In turn, you start attracting healthy, happy, confident women into your life. When in doubt, practice the following exercise. Every morning when you wake up, and also right before you go to bed, say to yourself, “Dating is…” and fill in the blank. Examples include “Dating is easy,” “Dating is fun,” “Dating is abundant,” etc. The key is to retrain your brain until you actually embrace your new belief system. Once you do, you’ll be surprised at how easily you’ll attract members of the opposite sex.

Be your Best Self

Just as you should fake confidence and retrain your brain, you should also strive to become your best self. How? By looking, acting, and talking as though you know who you really are and that you are comfortable in your own skin. This, too, can take time to implement. Day by day, work toward becoming the best version of yourself. If that means joining a gym to lose a couple of pounds, splurging on a few stylish new wardrobe pieces that make you feel better about yourself, and/or taking a class on presenting with confidence, go for it. Women are drawn to men who genuinely seem to like themselves without being boastful or arrogant.

Take an Interest in Her

Not comfortable talking about yourself when you meet someone new? Engage her in conversation! First of all, your interest in her and her life will be a refreshing change of pace from all the other self-absorbed guys she’s ever dated. Second, women like to feel interesting, desirable, and/or intriguing to men during the courtship process. By giving her the green light to open up and share, she’ll feel more attractive and in turn be more inclined to let you into her world.

Embrace your Shyness

Okay, this next piece of advice may feel counter intuitive to everything else included in this article. But here’s the deal: women dig men who are inherently humble. As a shy guy, you have the advantage of not possessing boastful or arrogant genes. So while you may need to work on your level of self-comfort and confidence to get a woman’s attention, always remember that your natural-born bashful tendencies will be appreciated by the right woman. Instead of apologizing for being shy, embrace it, work with it, and be yourself.

eHarmony Advice » About You, Dating Advice 

Omarion and Trey Song Video.

Omarion "WORK" Ok ladies damn we work it, Fellas learn from this video. 

Check this song out and Twerk It Ladies. LOL Trey Songz "Foreign"

SEXY IN ALL THE RIGHT PLACES

Hello Love Ones, today we are going to talk about "Sexy Positions," we all know Valentine is around the corner and if you have that special someone it's time to think outside the box, keep your relationship spicy is the key, ladies most men like to have a lady in the street and a freak in the bedroom. Here is some of our ideas on how to keep it spicy in the bedroom, and in the street. 

One thing about spicing up the relationship is to have sex in different places of your home, the bed is nice but the stairs can be sexy to.

When you go out to a movie or dinner afterwards find a sexy closed off location and have sex, this will help keep the image in your head when you are apart.

 Bedroom sex can be some time boring, so ladies and gentleman we need to take control and spicy it up. Try new positions, add whip cream, give him a lap dance and men you can give her a lap dance too. 

This is the Love Counselors giving you some tip on how to spicy up the love life. Please email makinglovevswar@gmail.com if you have any question.  

Good people make Bad decisions

Sometime I know we all can make Bad mistake but,  the question is do we learn from them. Learning from the mistake you made show that your growing and maturing. Life is not simple we all know, when you need someone to talk to about your problems we are here for you.

From the Love making Counselors

WHY DO MEN CHEAT?

WHY DO MEN CHEAT???

Can you have sex with someone after arguing???

Can you have sex with someone after you just finished arguing? Think about that, some woman will lay in the bed and let you have sex with her. Some woman won't say two word to you after you argue. Is she weak for having sex with her partner, or was she just horny?  

Is a man in the wrong for wanting to have sex with you or is he just not sensitive to her feeling? Please comment and let us know what you think.

 

Men tell Us about the Bedroom and Choose!!!

What Do You Think Choose one A. B. or C. get back to us Love Ones..