Making love vs War Valentine's day special

The Love making council is back with a valentine's ideas and possible romantic date with Tiponi. check us out at www.makinglovevswar@blogspot.com. Love ya

Being Comfortable in your Sexiness.

Love Ones, let's talk about being comfortable in your sexiness. People if you find yourself doing the same thing every night I know you heard this before but Change it UP, you know that at one point your partner thought "YOU" was a SEXY MUTHA MUKA. Well it's still in you so go get it and remember how it made you feel when your partner looked at you like you were a Succulent Steak!!!







Yeah you want that look again, you want them to devour you like they did the last time you was Sexy As Hell. On top of that wonderful gift you give each other on Valentine's Day why not give them the best gift... The gift of HOT SEXY MAKING LOVE ..... you get the idea.

Word from Tiponi Gray

BEING SEXY IN YOUR SKIN

Starting a Relationship

Hello Love Ones, we going to chat with you about starting a relationship, but before starting one you should understand what you are looking for in the relationship, know your boundaries and set them, No Compromising.

 On keeping it going I would say never try to force any issue, always keep it honest and keep the emotions out of serious issues handle all your problems from both perspectives. Even though you may feel your right, in your partners eyes they are right too, sooo try to take yourself out and see from their point of view, and finally on keeping it going Always Always keep it SEXY.

Tiponi & Leela

Love One, chat with us we are here to help and listen to you.  We started this blog to reach out to all couples,  single people, and everyone in between we are here to chat and help out relationship in different areas.

Don't belittle yourself

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Ways to Be Confident, Ballsy, and Sexy as Hell in Bed

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Dating Tips for Shy Guys

Calling all shy guys! 

You may sometimes feel anxious, uncertain, and/or insecure when it comes to dating, the truth is that the right kind of woman will appreciate your unassuming ways. 

Fake it Till you Make It 

Not to get all Dr. Phil on you, but the good doctor’s got a point. If you’re a shy guy, you’ll need to start projecting self-confidence when dealing with women, even if you don’t fully feel it yet. Keep in mind, confidence is different than bragging and boasting. A confident man can comfortably make eye contact with a cute stranger, offer a friendly smile, and strike up a casual conversation without seeming phony or full of himself. If the idea of approaching a woman you don’t know feels overwhelming, take it slow. Practice making and maintaining eye contact with a member of the opposite sex every day for a week. The following week, add a friendly smile to your efforts. Once that feels natural, start saying hello. It’s true what they say — practice makes perfect, so the more you put these new behaviors into practice, the more natural they’ll become. By the time you meet someone amazing, you’ll be ready, willing, and able to confidently and comfortably ask her out.

Retrain your Brain

If your beliefs about dating have been largely negative, it’s time to retrain your brain. The past is the past. Let go of any dating disappointments and other drama you've experienced. Believe that future dating success IS possible for you. By thinking positively, you engage the law of attraction. In turn, you start attracting healthy, happy, confident women into your life. When in doubt, practice the following exercise. Every morning when you wake up, and also right before you go to bed, say to yourself, “Dating is…” and fill in the blank. Examples include “Dating is easy,” “Dating is fun,” “Dating is abundant,” etc. The key is to retrain your brain until you actually embrace your new belief system. Once you do, you’ll be surprised at how easily you’ll attract members of the opposite sex.

Be your Best Self

Just as you should fake confidence and retrain your brain, you should also strive to become your best self. How? By looking, acting, and talking as though you know who you really are and that you are comfortable in your own skin. This, too, can take time to implement. Day by day, work toward becoming the best version of yourself. If that means joining a gym to lose a couple of pounds, splurging on a few stylish new wardrobe pieces that make you feel better about yourself, and/or taking a class on presenting with confidence, go for it. Women are drawn to men who genuinely seem to like themselves without being boastful or arrogant.

Take an Interest in Her

Not comfortable talking about yourself when you meet someone new? Engage her in conversation! First of all, your interest in her and her life will be a refreshing change of pace from all the other self-absorbed guys she’s ever dated. Second, women like to feel interesting, desirable, and/or intriguing to men during the courtship process. By giving her the green light to open up and share, she’ll feel more attractive and in turn be more inclined to let you into her world.

Embrace your Shyness

Okay, this next piece of advice may feel counter intuitive to everything else included in this article. But here’s the deal: women dig men who are inherently humble. As a shy guy, you have the advantage of not possessing boastful or arrogant genes. So while you may need to work on your level of self-comfort and confidence to get a woman’s attention, always remember that your natural-born bashful tendencies will be appreciated by the right woman. Instead of apologizing for being shy, embrace it, work with it, and be yourself.

eHarmony Advice » About You, Dating Advice 

Omarion and Trey Song Video.

Omarion "WORK" Ok ladies damn we work it, Fellas learn from this video. 

Check this song out and Twerk It Ladies. LOL Trey Songz "Foreign"

SEXY IN ALL THE RIGHT PLACES

Hello Love Ones, today we are going to talk about "Sexy Positions," we all know Valentine is around the corner and if you have that special someone it's time to think outside the box, keep your relationship spicy is the key, ladies most men like to have a lady in the street and a freak in the bedroom. Here is some of our ideas on how to keep it spicy in the bedroom, and in the street. 

One thing about spicing up the relationship is to have sex in different places of your home, the bed is nice but the stairs can be sexy to.

When you go out to a movie or dinner afterwards find a sexy closed off location and have sex, this will help keep the image in your head when you are apart.

 Bedroom sex can be some time boring, so ladies and gentleman we need to take control and spicy it up. Try new positions, add whip cream, give him a lap dance and men you can give her a lap dance too. 

This is the Love Counselors giving you some tip on how to spicy up the love life. Please email makinglovevswar@gmail.com if you have any question.  

Good people make Bad decisions

Sometime I know we all can make Bad mistake but,  the question is do we learn from them. Learning from the mistake you made show that your growing and maturing. Life is not simple we all know, when you need someone to talk to about your problems we are here for you.

From the Love making Counselors

WHY DO MEN CHEAT?

WHY DO MEN CHEAT???

Can you have sex with someone after arguing???

Can you have sex with someone after you just finished arguing? Think about that, some woman will lay in the bed and let you have sex with her. Some woman won't say two word to you after you argue. Is she weak for having sex with her partner, or was she just horny?  

Is a man in the wrong for wanting to have sex with you or is he just not sensitive to her feeling? Please comment and let us know what you think.

 

Men tell Us about the Bedroom and Choose!!!

What Do You Think Choose one A. B. or C. get back to us Love Ones..

I finally did it.

Hello Loved ones, wuss good? Today on ‪#‎makinglovevswar‬ we will be doing something a lil different. My girl Leela is not feeling well so we gotta love her with some positive energy and prayers of Love. So since we keep it real @ making love it all gets put out there. I'm not use to this so bare with me. I am the subject today. I will be sharing some emotional video from my personal journal and some words from my upcoming book "The Salt and the Light Journals". Sometimes the... best way to heal is to share. So the vidblog will be just ya girl Tiponi. Imma keep it short sweet but ‪#‎True‬ with yal like I Always do, so be sure to check it out later today at makinglovevswar@blogspot come by and be a part of the family. Oh by the way I gotta give a couple shout outs as well this is the most important thing because these people motivate us to keep this going Love yal:-) No Filter.

With my made up mind and determination

I moved on.

And Now I am Free.

Valentines Dating

 

Are you looking to date someone for Valentines Day. Here is the package plans below. Send in your picture and we will give you all the detail on how this works. Let us hook you up.

You Going to Miss Her When She Gone

Hello Love ones, today I woke up thinking about all the thing a real woman do for her man and he take it for granite. I was reading a quote and I wanted to share it with you all. 

If you don't start to appreciate her, and show her that you love her she will move on. You have to show her with little things ex: a handwritten letter, flowers, go and buy her a shirt or shoes, keep the receipt just in case she don't like it LOL, finally a good foot massage will help her to relax after a hard day from work.

Getting what you ask for.

Hello Loved ones. Wuss good? As we promised here is the video for the topic, "Getting what you ask for". We hope you enjoy it. Please, please leave us your comments and questions. Be daring and send us your "QuickVids" stating your opinion about this or any other subject and we will feature some of the videos on our video chats. Thank you so much for your support. We Love ya.

Watch this Video

Letting Go and Moving On.

Hey loved ones, wuss good? Today is the last part of the the series "The thrill is gone." We want to help you let Go. Once you have weighed the situation in your relationship and found it to be "wanting" how do you let go? It's not easy to let go of someone you love and have given your precious time to. It hurts and is disappointing when you have invested so much energy into something that turned out to be a 'Dead end". We talk about why you should cheer the Hell up. Let's keep it real, once you have let go and moved on you will be "FREE". You can be you again and feel the relief of being confined and stressed and worried all the time. No more walking on "egg shells" trying to please someone else. Now is the "opportunity" to please you. So Please Do. Now watch the video and let us "Make some Love to you". Love yal.
                                               Mya "Moving On"

I'm Done

Letting Go.

Moving On to You, with you.

The "5" signs to let you know it's time to let go.

Hey, hey, hey Loved ones. Wuss good? today is Part 2 "The thrill is gone". Sometimes we feel like something is missing but we go straight to being in denial. We may see the signs that the emotions are not there anymore but we tell ourselves, "I know this is the one for me." Sometimes this is true and it is just not the right time. But sometimes its not the truth and we don't want to be honest with ourselves because we are afraid to be alone so we hang in there. All you are doing is fooling yourself and causing more heartache and stress by becoming ignorant to the truth. Well there are some real good signs to look for that let you know for a fact it is time to let go. Watch the video as we get deep into it and give you the heads-up on these signs. We wanna put them in YOUR FACE so you can't deny the truth. We wanna help you Heal. Now watch the video. We Love yal:-)
                                Avant "Separated."

Sleepless nights

                                                                         Wanting to be away.

Not wanting intamacy

Introduction to Making Love vs War with the Love making council.

               You gotta watch this video.
                               Marvin Gaye "Sexual healing."

When the Thrill is gone.

Hello loved ones. Wuss good? Today we will chat about "when the feeling has left the building".
So many of us hold on to relationships way past there time. We either stay because we don't know where to go or because we don't even realize it's time to Go. This discussion will be a 3 part series because of how important it is for us to let go and move on. The next one will be the 5 major clues to let you know its that time. And the last one is Letting go and moving on. Be sure to watch and join All three of these important sessions to get the full overview of the situation. Keep watching and we gone get somewhere TOGETHER;-)
                                                        Keyshia Cole "I Remember"

I'm not feeling you.

 Why am I still here?

 This can't be my life.

Getting what you asked for.

Hey Loved ones, today we will chat about "What we think we want" and what we end up with. How many of you have this ideal Mate in your head when you were young. You said what this person would look like, what they would do for a living even, how good they can kiss. Then the hook-up and your so-called dream person has the things that you asked for but not the things that are really important like what you need. Damn. Let's dig into that today. How do you handle it, how do you feel lets share family.
                                              Beyonce "Best Thing I never had."           

 Lazy ass!

Insensitive Bastard.



Verbally abusive.

                                  Physically abusive

SEx vs. making LovE

Bruno Mars "Gorillas"

Hey Family, today we wanna chat with yal about SEX. We are going to break is down to the Nicety?Nasty essence. What do men think about sex vs. what women think about sex. Is There a real difference between Sex and making love? Please watch the video with our Girl Chat sessions where we lay it all out. Then, Please feel free to join the discussion by posting your questions, concerns and opinions. Let's Keep it real People.

Smoldering Passionate Love making.



Hot Exciting Sex.