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Try to do what is best for you and your kids. 

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Don't let the devil Win

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 "KARMA" Do on to others what you want done onto you.

 
 


 Never let anyone tell you your not good enough, being yourself show character, inspiring, swag, motivating someone else to believe in their self.









Believing in yourself is it own Swag

Running from your problems just build on more problems. Think before you at.

Video love is not abusive

Hello Love Ones, This Leela here I am getting back to you all about the post "love is not abusive" post. I have put in here two question a man and a woman that email me a question about what is going in there life please share your comment and post, you can help someone else. Thank you hope you like it.

Strong Woman with a weak Man

 

I was told that I'm intimidating and a strong woman, I didn't know how to take that in when I was younger, but now I see it as a good thing. I went through some weak, lazy, men that just don't know how to provide for a family. I take on all the role in the house, I'm the mommy, daddy, big sister, aunt, uncle and that person everyone walk over.

So one day I was talking to my friend about my break up, it was a very bad experience for me. I needed someone to lean on for support, after I was finish with my conversation with this friend all she said was you strong you get through it.

But that was not the answer I needed. So it made me think, just because I'm strong I can't call on no one to lean on. So then when my father was a jerk to me and I needed someone to talk to about him, I reach out to my Aunt and she told me you strong sometimes you have to be the parent when your parent can't be. "What kind of answer is that," that is not what you say to a little girl that need her father in her life.

So I realize I will never have anyone to reach out to not my friend, family, or co worker. Because I'm so intimidating people treat me different all the time. So now I'm 20 +10 years old , being a strong woman is not a bad thing we as women try to dumb our self down for others "WHY" to make them feel better but what about my feeling. Since no one want to think about my feelings I have to do it myself. I will no longer, dumb myself down, and if I get a compliment I won't put myself down to please another anymore. So LADY'S please start treating yourself what you are worth and surround yourself with other like you.

Please send me your story and If you need someone to talk to Leela is hear to HELP please reach out. makinglovevswar@gmail.com

Love is not Abusive

Hello Love Ones, today we going to talk about abusive relationship. I had someone come to me and ask me when is enough is enough, my answer to that is when you give it your all and your not receiving it back, or when you tired of making excuses for when they mistreating you, or when you have no confidence in yourself then enough is enough.

The reason I answer this like that is because I will be posting a video for the woman the email me this question.

 

When things get this bad its time to leave the relationship. Question 2, I want to leave but I don't have the money to leave? We as women give so much in a relationship and sometime don't have the money to jump up and leave when we want to, I think you should just plan your way out. give yourself a month or 2 and plan to get away.

Step. 1. Do your research find a place to go to, one bedroom apartment or 2, rent a room or go and seek help from a church or a center that help in this situation.

 

Step. 2. Start putting away $20 to $100 dollar to move with. Get a job that your not trying to hold on to for a long time, and use the money as moving money.

 

Step. 3. Once you get that money together don't look back get a restraining order to protect yourself , change your number and don't contact know one, this is your secret.

 

 

Thank you from Leela

 



 

This said it all

I don't have to many words to say, this say it all. 

Tiponi on Divorce Court

Look at my Girl on Divorce Court 

This is part 1 of the video part 2 is below

Changing for the better

We in life give  to much and the people we care about under appreciate what we do for them and how much effort we put into it.  

When you show more love to the other person then you do yourself and don't receive it back, something is not right with that picture, it's time to make some changes don't keep putting 80% into someone else and only 20% into yourself, this will effect you mentally, emotionally and physically, we start eating more, staying in the house more being antisocial, and end up all in our feeling more and more. Overtime when someone give us a compliments we don't know how to take it in, so we response back negative,"oh thank you but I just threw something on, it nothing really ". We need to stop people.

When we start to open our eyes and make changes for the better and push away from the negative people or the things we do, how things come out of our month, you will start seeing a change for the better. Thank you Love Ones, Start your day out right.

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Valentine's day Questions with Linda

Hey Loved Ones, Tiponi here. Wuss good? Today we are going to take a question from one of our beautiful followers. She asked about gifting and Leela and I are going to give her our opinion. We would like you to get involved and respond to Linda's question, give her a little of your attention with at least a comment. You can show at least that much love for the season Righ? Anyway we want to hear from you with your questions and concerns, so please get your cameras and make those videos. What are you waiting for cause we waiting on you. Love Ya:-)

Introducing Linda

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